The Person You Hate, God Loves

Some of us have hatred in our hearts, but we don’t identify it as ‘hate’ because we feel justified in our emotions.

But this judgement is faulty because it’s ‘human judgement’ and many times human judgement lack grace and mercy. We must see others through the eyes of God. I know it’s easier said than done- but it’s attainable.

How else are you able to genuinely pray for an enemy? How else can you forgive the molester? How else can you turn the other cheek when slapped with betrayal? Easy. You consciously and intentionally make the decision to LOVE THOSE WHO GOD LOVES. Hate only breeds sickness in our bodies (e.g., in some cases- your own heart will attack you aka heart attack and heart disease). Forgive. Let go. And love.

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Obedience is Your Remedy

Sis, God has already told you to let him go, but yet you’re still holding on. You’re searching for man-made signs and acceptance as proof that you’re not out of the will of God, but you are and your spirit reminds you daily. Where the spirit of the Lord is, there is liberty. Where’s your peace, sister? The disturbance you encounter cannot be prayed or fasted away-


Remember, DELAYED obedience is equivalent to flat out disobedience. God sees what you can’t see sis; He can see the heart and intentions of the very one you’ve decided to keep despite the red flags and warnings.

God wants you to do things His way- submit and you will NOT be disappointed. When will you learn from those around you that have repeatedly said, “I wish I would’ve waited; I wish I would’ve heeded to God’s words; I wish I would’ve allowed God to choose for me.” When, sis? Do you want their same testimony of regret, unnecessary heartbreak and disappointment?

You may feel as if God is punishing you with each “No”, Not yet”, “Let go”, “Don’t”, “He’s not the one”. But on the contrary – He is PRESERVING you sis. You are indeed that special that God won’t allow you to be with just anyone. I remember the wise words of my spiritual Dad, “You marry a destiny, not a person.”

Will you allow yourself to be Overlooked To Be Handpicked by the ORDAINED AND APPOINTED ONE? You are not alone sis. Your sisters are waiting too. Let go. Let God.

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It’s Time to Make a Decision


“You will decide on a matter, and it will be established for you, and light will shine on your ways.” ~ Job 22:28

Family, sometimes all it takes is one decision! One unique moment in time where faith and action meets opportunity. One moment in time where you make up in your mind that “xyz” will occur or no longer occur. One moment in time where the doubt ceases and you CHOOSE to believe God. One moment in time where you are tired of losing or feeling discontent. Just one decision.
It’s in our wavering, teeter tottering, lukewarmness, and lack of faith that causes us to be tossed like a pendulum, repeating trials and tests that were only meant to last for a moment, not a lifetime.
Once you repeat a thing/season/trial/test, it then produces a lifestyle of non-stop recycling and rehearsing. Rehearsing for an event that may never occur due to our lack of decision-making. Rehearsing for the grand finale, without DECIDING to go through the process. Family, it’s time to DECIDE and put away our dress rehearsal.
What are you being called to decide on? Now go in peace.
~Author La’Tivia Elizabeth, GIRLY With No Apologies




There are many things bubbling under the surface that’s yelling and pulling on us to FEAR:

FEAR the economy!
FEAR future wars!
FEAR your livelihood because of our NEW leadership!
FEAR the state of healthcare!
FEAR the state of the church!
FEAR police brutality!
Etc. etc. etc.

But God says to fear no one but Him. He says that our DREAD should be in Him and Him alone.

God says He is with me and I should not be afraid because what can mere mortals do to me.

God says don’t fear those who can kill your body, but cannot kill the soul.

God says He can make a way in the sea, and a path in the mighty waters. God will even make a way in the wilderness, and rivers in the desert.

#DontBeMovedChildOfGod #GIRLYWithNoApologies #PeaceBeStill #Fear #Ministry


~La’Tivia Elizabeth, GIRLY With No Apologies

Yes, Let’s All QUIT!

Can you hear the screeching of tires after reading my title? I hope so.

It’s so easy to quit.
It takes no effort.
It takes no thought process.
It’s just simply easy. It actually feels good at the time as it gives a false sense of “relief”.

But when you look back on your life and you see how you didn’t finish that book, that college course, that endeavor, that goal, that journey and etc.… It leaves a hole in your heart.

But I declare and decree, over myself and over everyone that reads this post, that you WILL finish strong! I don’t care IF we have to cry our way through… I don’t care if we have to fight our way through… I don’t care if we have to throw a temper tantrum or two… We will finish strong!


~La’Tivia Elizabeth, GIRLY With No Apologies

This Blood Right Here!


Oooh see, this BLOOD right here, covers me, my family and my bloodline to come.

It’s impenetrable- the fiery darts HAVE NO POWER AGAINST THIS BLOOD RIGHT HERE!

This BLOOD RIGHT HERE, is innocent, full of redeeming POWER, forgiveness, healing, restoration, protection, favor and anointing!

THIS blood right here, drenches me and hides me from ALL my enemies!

You see, this BLOOD right here, is really what the enemy is up against- it’s not little ole me!

You see, this BLOOD right here, moves mountains and calms the waves, quenches fires and keeps me sane!


~La’Tivia Elizabeth, GIRLY With No Apologies