The Person You Hate, God Loves

Some of us have hatred in our hearts, but we don’t identify it as ‘hate’ because we feel justified in our emotions.

But this judgement is faulty because it’s ‘human judgement’ and many times human judgement lack grace and mercy. We must see others through the eyes of God. I know it’s easier said than done- but it’s attainable.

How else are you able to genuinely pray for an enemy? How else can you forgive the molester? How else can you turn the other cheek when slapped with betrayal? Easy. You consciously and intentionally make the decision to LOVE THOSE WHO GOD LOVES. Hate only breeds sickness in our bodies (e.g., in some cases- your own heart will attack you aka heart attack and heart disease). Forgive. Let go. And love.

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Listennnn, the enemy is working overtime to breakup covenant relationships which includes marital covenants, family, church, ordained friendships and business partners.

He’s whispering lies on both ends. He’s making one side highly accusatory, paranoid and suspicious, while highlighting the short comings of the other party. Now, although most of what you’re hearing and seeing are indeed facts, THIS doesn’t negate the malicious intent to cause offense and subsequently premature separation, divorce, and lawsuits.

The word says to “make allowance for each other’s faults, and forgive anyone who offends you. Remember, the Lord forgave you, so you must forgive others.” (Colossians 3:13)

I implore you, hold tight to what GOD blessed and entrusted you with. There’s a powerful reason why you’re together (CHOSEN) and even more reason why you’re being tempted to leave. #StayForRealWoke #NoManIsWithoutSin #Message #InsideTheHeartOfGod #InsideTheEnemysCamp #BeNotIgnorantOfHisDevices #GIRLYWithNoApologies


Love always,

La’Tivia Elizabeth, G.W.N.A.

It’s Time to Make a Decision


“You will decide on a matter, and it will be established for you, and light will shine on your ways.” ~ Job 22:28

Family, sometimes all it takes is one decision! One unique moment in time where faith and action meets opportunity. One moment in time where you make up in your mind that “xyz” will occur or no longer occur. One moment in time where the doubt ceases and you CHOOSE to believe God. One moment in time where you are tired of losing or feeling discontent. Just one decision.
It’s in our wavering, teeter tottering, lukewarmness, and lack of faith that causes us to be tossed like a pendulum, repeating trials and tests that were only meant to last for a moment, not a lifetime.
Once you repeat a thing/season/trial/test, it then produces a lifestyle of non-stop recycling and rehearsing. Rehearsing for an event that may never occur due to our lack of decision-making. Rehearsing for the grand finale, without DECIDING to go through the process. Family, it’s time to DECIDE and put away our dress rehearsal.
What are you being called to decide on? Now go in peace.
~Author La’Tivia Elizabeth, GIRLY With No Apologies



defeated-devilPsst… you, yes you- I have something to share with you–> He’s Down Right Afraid of You!!!

Tune in tonight as we expose the enemy’s tactics and the true POWER and AUTHORITY we are to operate in- Day 17.
Where: Periscope @ Tipblazian
Time: 9 pm EST
What: “Truth be Told in High Dosage- An Antidote to Your Hurt 30 Day Devotional”

Are You a Recipient for a Miracle?

Definition of miracle:

  1. Supernatural deed
  2. A surprising and welcome event that is not explicable by natural or scientific laws and is therefore considered to be the work of a divine agency.
  3. A highly improbable or extraordinary event, development, or accomplishment that brings very welcome consequences.
Great morning children of God! I pray that you are held within the grasp of God’s staying power on this ordained day. God has downloaded fresh manna for you. Let’s jump into today’s devotional as I pray it will speak to your inner man providing you the faith and endurance to believe God for one more day. Are you a recipient for a miracle? 
In order to be a recipient of a MIRACLE, things must look bleak, worsening in condition or state, out of control, or even lifeless. How does your current situation look? Does it resemble something that is out of the help or reach of man? Does it resemble the face of defeat? Death? Extreme hopelessness? Extreme shame? Extreme disorder? Well family, if you answered yes to any of the aforementioned questions, I want you to take delight in knowing that you have been SET UP as a recipient for a miracle. Let’s stop and shout right there. Hallelujah!
I don’t care how the circumstances appear. I don’t care what news that phone call just delivered. I don’t care how LONG you’ve been in this state of suffering, turmoil, lack/poverty, dead-end job, receiving bad news after bad news, trying to conceive, trying to save your marriage, trying to save your child(ren) from a life of destruction, trying to recover ALL from that failing business, trying to steal from Peter to pay Paul… God does not care. Because of this–> YOU my dear have been qualified to receive a miracle in the mighty name of Jesus Christ. Do you believe that?
Last night, through my Periscope series of “Truth be Told in High Dosage”- 30 day devotional journey, the Lord prompted me to revisit many of the MIRACLES Jesus Christ performed while being in the earth. He reminded us of Lazarus being raised from the dead (even while his flesh was decaying and stinking, He reminded us of how the virgin Mary gave birth to our very own Messiah, He reminded us of how He turned water into wine, He reminded us of how He instructed Simon to cast his net into the deep waters and there were so many fish (come on now, who am I speaking to right now) that his net broke; He reminded us of how He healed the centurion’s servant while not even being in His presence- He simply spoke the word and then he was healed! Hallelujah!
What miracle are you a recipient of?  What miracle are you waiting for? What’s stressing  you? What’s causing you to fear or dread? What’s tempting you to give up? That’s your MIRACLE right there.  The Lord is STILL actively roaming this world- watching over HIS word to perform it in your life. Family, I implore you to sit at the very feet of Jesus, cry out to Him, wear Him out with your fervent supplications. He WILL perform His word in your life in the name of Jesus! Miracles require faith. Believe with all your heart that God will do it. Now go in  peace.
Psalm 77:14You are the God who performs miracles; you display your power among the peoples.
~La’Tivia Elizabeth

#PowerScripture: Isaiah 48

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Isaiah 48:3-11King James Version (KJV)

I have declared the former things from the beginning; and they went forth out of my mouth, and I shewed them; I did them suddenly, and they came to pass.

Because I knew that thou art obstinate (treacherous; unfaithful), and thy neck is an iron sinew, and thy brow brass (stubborn);

I have even from the beginning declared it to thee; before it came to pass I shewed it thee: lest thou shouldest say, Mine idol hath done them, and my graven image, and my molten image, hath commanded them.

Thou hast heard, see all this; and will not ye declare it? I have shewed thee new things from this time, even hidden things, and thou didst not know them.

They are created now, and not from the beginning; even before the day when thou heardest them not; lest thou shouldest say, Behold, I knew them.

Yea, thou heardest not; yea, thou knewest not; yea, from that time that thine ear was not opened: for I knew that thou wouldest deal very treacherously, and wast called a transgressor from the womb.

For my name’s sake will I defer mine anger, and for my praise will I refrain for thee, that I cut thee not off (mercy and grace- thank you God!).

10 Behold, I have refined thee, but not with silver; I have chosen thee in the furnace of affliction.

11 For mine own sake, even for mine own sake, will I do it: for how should my name be polluted? and I will not give my glory unto another.

“Truth be Told in High Dosage”

Truth be Told in High Dosage

What’s the antidote to your hurt?

Are you hurting? Do you feel a pain on the inside of you that cannot be described? I’m not referring to a physical pain, but rather a spiritual one. An ache that is not tangible, yet the hurt lingers in the depths of your soul. Have you recently cried out to God with numerous questions only to hear silence in return? What is my purpose? How do I become free from self? How do I obtain all that God has for me? I’m calling out for a spiritual doctor!

It is my prayer and belief that as you embark on this 30 day journey of devotional readings, you will experience and receive answers to your questions, revelatory doors will be unlocked, and most of all you will receive a diagnosis. How can one improve their state of being if unaware of the root cause of the pain? You will be compelled to look at the man/woman in the mirror and no longer be allowed to place a band-aid on your wound. Consume your daily medicine as you partake in the first devotional book of the “Antidote to Your Hurt” series; these God-inspired ministerial readings will inspire, encourage, lead you to repentance, and so much more. God cares for you and wants you to have an abundant life. As you read forward you will be challenged to excel pass mediocrity.  It’s in these most discomforting times that we should reflect on self and seek spiritual guidance.

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Thank you!

~La’Tivia Elizabeth, G.I.R.L.Y With No Apologies